An Exercise in Indirectly Hostile Self-Justification
The football publication is strangely uninspiring, yet curiously irresistible. Even title is confusing. The Dear England title already names a popular theatrical production, an future television program, and a national address authored by Gareth Southgate in 2021.
This version of Dear England is not officially tied to any of those. It stands as an peculiar entry in the Dear England Multiverse, a volume about leadership: a traditionally dry elite football manager subject that Southgate sticks to doggedly, relying on the words “leader”, “leading” or “management” at least 500 times across 336 pages.
Inquiries Explored
“What defines a leader? What do leaders do? What insights do leaders have?” he asks at the outset, establishing his stall, but choosing not to explore “How are leaders?”, themes likely saved for a second book.
Beyond that, this book features a book-shaped hole throughout. It’s an attempt in passive-aggressive self-justification, in nearly but not entirely saying the real point, hopping skillfully from unsettled score to unscabbed wound across a series of pie charts, management jargon and references about Thomas Cromwell.
Immersion
Engaging with the text is like overhearing your loved ones having a polite but deeply felt argument in the nearby area while you’re striving to concentrate on a corporate presentation called “Countless Explanations for My Eventual Success”. But it is also challenging to stop reading, as Southgate keeps drifting near to something you truly want to learn about, before abruptly shifting focus.
Revelations
The book contains typically attention-grabbing disclosures in publications in this genre, due to the peeled-eyeball interest with leading the national team. The most striking examples encompass: he made up his mind he was definitely going to quit as England manager after fans hurled containers at him at the tournament; he almost chose to abandoning the game at mid-match against Bulgaria in 2019 after his squad members were racially abused; he introduced the approach of set-piece coaches and all teams in the English football is now adopting his methods; he has now lost his passion for the sport, a shocking admission briefly included in a short passage at the conclusion.
Leading England through a era of rage, hope, political ferment and lockdown was a grueling ordeal. The wounds are obviously still raw.
Predictable Elements
Otherwise, the narrative is overrun with an AI-style verbal clutter of commonplace leadership chat. Advanced copies of this book were provided with reviewers under confidentiality clauses ahead of publication, likely out of fear someone might reveal that “tough talks can, by their nature, be challenging”, that you should always consider the consequences, that management occurs where evolution intersects with understanding.
Sincere Expression
The book contains nevertheless authentic emotion within. Leading England through a era of fury, aspiration, upheaval and confinement was a brutal journey. The wounds are obviously still unhealed, albeit conveyed in a terminology-heavy reinterpretation of the classic leader theme: demonstrating my accuracy about all matters from the start.
Specific Examples
The book’s opening passage, Trojan-horsed as thrilling recollections of the deciding game of Euro 2024, is all about how effective Southgate actually was at player changes (the big criticism of Southgate being he was not successful at altering the lineup). Further on, he explores great depth about how he managed the championship match of 2021 perfectly – particularly the losing penalty shootout – because he adhered to a predetermined process, which must mean that introducing inexperienced squad members in the closing stages to take the crucial attempt of their lives was reasonable and accurate.
That approach was confirmed by a victorious tiebreaker against Switzerland in a subsequent competition after a fixture where England spent the entire match looking as if they were attempting to wear a pullover the wrong way round. “The control we exerted in that tiebreaker was absolutely thrilling,” the author states, in between comparing the display to US Navy Seals eliminating a high-profile target. Goodness.
Withheld Details
When we come near to a revelation, he retreats from specifying people or providing the juice. We discover there were challenging England individuals who insisted on more consideration, perhaps because they were spoilt during the beginning of their careers. But as you anticipate hopefully, Southgate is quickly veering off into an area named a leadership concept, which asserts that rather than a assemblage of characteristics or principles, culture is in fact something that is developed by, gah, please, that’s sufficient.
Notable Sections
Within the better parts are when he writes about the incremental method of fostering fortitude in the next generation, or how he tried to define national identity more lucidly and more constructively than any other figure in the spotlight. Most impressively, there is a genuinely absorbing description of that harrowing evening in Sofia where England’s players of color were targeted with hatred (and later defended forcefully by their manager).
Sincere Finale
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